Vacation with Purpose:
Transform Your Relationship in Just One Retreat
Escape with Purpose: Transform Your Relationship in Just One Retreat
Here, we offer practices for building trust, deepening intimacy, and rekindling connection—empowering you to live with more love, security and closeness in your relationship.
This isn’t your average getaway—it’s a one-of-a-kind retreat and lesbian vacation created to help you and your partner rediscover the love, connection, and joy you’ve been longing for.
If you’re feeling stuck in the same arguments, missing the spark that once brought you together, or wondering if you’re losing touch with each other, this is your chance to rewrite your story. You’ll rediscover trust, purpose, and a deeper connection—all with tools that empower you to create lasting change.
Imagine stepping into a space free from distractions, where laughter turns into meaningful conversations, and breakthroughs bring you closer than ever before. One couple called it “a game-changer for your relationship,” while another said, “I felt I could be my authentic self.”
Guided by Michele and Kristen O'Mara—partners in love, life, and countless adventures—you’re in excellent hands. Michele brings decades of professional experience as a Lesbian Intimacy and Relationship Coach, while Kristen specializes in creating memorable experiences through good food and great adventures. Together, they’ll equip you with the tools and insights to reignite joy, passion, and purpose in your relationship.
But it’s not all serious work—expect plenty of fun along the way! From engaging activities and delightful gatherings to exciting adventures and shared laughter, you’ll enjoy every step of the journey. This isn’t just about fixing what feels broken—it’s about building something strong, lasting, and uniquely yours, all while having a great time together.
As one attendee put it: “The best investment a couple should make at any stage.” You’ll leave with fresh insights, renewed intimacy, and a plan for sustaining your love. More than a getaway, this is an opportunity to transform your relationship into the love story you wish to live.
In a world where 50% of couples don't make it,
we help lesbian couples beat the odds.
This isn’t your average getaway—it’s a retreat crafted just for you and your partner, where you’ll find more than just time away. If you’re feeling stuck in the same old conflicts, missing the spark, or even feeling like you’re losing yourself, this is where things can shift. Here, you’ll rediscover purpose, connection, and a way forward together.
Imagine stepping into a space free from distractions, where laughter leads to real, honest conversations and those moments that reignite your bond. As one couple put it, “It’s a game-changer for your relationship.” Another shared, “I felt I could be my authentic self.”
This isn’t about surface-level fixes. With Kristen and Michele guiding the way, you’ll go deeper, discovering tools to bring back the joy, passion, and purpose in your relationship. They’ve been there—they get it—and they’re committed to helping you build something real and lasting.
One attendee said it best: “The best investment a couple should make at any stage.” You’ll come away with fresh insights, a renewed connection, and a toolkit that sticks. This isn’t just a getaway; it’s an investment in a happier, closer, and more resilient relationship.
Retreat Offerings
What You Will Gain from the Retreat Experience
If you’ve been feeling stuck in conflict, disconnected from your partner, or unsure how to move forward, this retreat is your opportunity to turn things around. Here’s what you’ll take away:
- A Blueprint for Connection: Learn tools to communicate effectively, resolve conflict with compassion, and build a stronger “us.”
- Renewed Intimacy: Rekindle the spark with exercises that deepen both emotional and physical connection in ways that feel authentic and thrilling.
- Clarity and Confidence: Gain insights that help you truly understand your partner and feel secure in your relationship.
- Unforgettable Memories: Share moments of laughter, discovery, and adventure in a distraction-free space designed just for you.
- A Path Forward: Leave with a toolkit for lasting love—one you can return to again and again as your relationship grows.
More than one couple has said “It was like a year of therapy in one week.”
This retreat is more than a getaway; it’s your next step toward the relationship you’ve always wanted.
Four different types of retreats
The Love Codes Retreat
Master the six essential Love Codes to deepen intimacy, trust, and connection. Build a foundation for a thriving relationship with tools from our Wholehearted Communication approach.
Lesbian Sex and Intimacy
Rediscover passion and closeness with exercises and conversations focused on body, mind, heart, and pleasure. Leave with a deeper understanding of each other’s desires and a renewed sense of joy in intimacy.
From Conflict to Connection
Turn repetitive arguments into meaningful conversations. This retreat equips you with the tools to repair, rebuild, and reconnect, transforming conflict into closeness.
The Couples Blueprint: A Customized Retreat
Looking for something truly personal? This boutique retreat is tailored to your relationship’s unique dynamic, offering private sessions, custom agendas, and exercises designed just for you.
Why Invest in a Retreat Together?
We believe every couple should have access to this transformative experience, so we offer generous payment plans to make it as accessible as possible. Plus, the earlier you register, the more choices you have—those who sign up first get first dibs on room selection for the perfect retreat experience. Click on the retreat(s) that interest you for specific costs and payment options.
Costs range from $1195 to $4988 per couple
Invest in the future of your relationship today.
About Us
Michele O'Mara specializes in lesbian relationship care. In 2014, she completed her Phd in Clinical Sexology, with a dissertation on The Correlation Between Lesbian Relationship Satisfaction and Sexual Frequency. She is Gottman trained in all 3 levels, Imago Certified, has EFT training with Sue Johnson, and is also Certified in Discernment Counseling. In a world where heterosexual couples (with all the privileges of acceptance and support) struggle to keep a relationship going, Michele is committed to helping lesbian couples beat the odds.
What Couples Say About Working With Kristen and Michele
It was great! It goes over a lot of information and helps couples communicate in more effective ways. It really goes to the heart. It was helpful to hear other couples’ stories and Michele had great insight into behavioral patterns and ways to make practical changes. I’m very thankful! It helped my marriage a lot and we made new friends. A million thank yous!
It was awesome! I was a little hesitant- not sure what to expect. We both were. From the time we entered the house, it was a safe and welcoming environment. Michele is AMAZING. So knowledgeable and cares about everyone, regardless of what issues are at hand.
Kristen is the Hostess with the Mostest. Thank you both for everything.
A mind-blowing experience in which I felt that Michele nurtured the relationship and our love for each other while gently leading us to truths about ourselves. Nothing like what I expected, and one of the best experiences I can imagine. A wonderful, positive, safe, nurturing, and, above all, fun environment for opening up and learning skills to make our relationship the best it can be.
JUST GO! Best $ ever spent… The humor, the safe space for openness and vulnerability, and the flexibility. In witnessing Michele & Kristen’s realness together.I have learned that the goal is not to prevent conflict; rather, the magic is the way in which we repair!
If you are a lesbian couple… just sign up. Honestly, right now. Go to the website and Register for a retreat. You won’t be sorry. I feel safe with you, Michele. I’m so grateful that lesbian couples have you in our corner. Thanks for seeing us through your healing lens.
Hands down, must do. No questions asked!! Very helpful tools and very simple ways to apply. It was like a year of couples counseling in one weekend, with concrete examples, tools, and help. We tackled hard conversations in what seemed impossible before, in 3 days, with ease and with help and guidance.
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